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Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this
hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you
agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant.
You're all pumped up to see this girl again and
you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance
and a potential relationship.
You arrive right on time at the time you both
agreed upon. And you're waiting and waiting for
her to show up. Ten minutes goes by...then twenty
minutes...then thirty minutes.
What should you do? Leave in a fit of anger and
never see her again? Call her up later and cuss
her out?
Here are my recommendations:
- Never wait more than 30 minutes for a date
to show up.
- Give her the benefit of the doubt that maybe
she has a valid excuse for not showing up such
as traffic, sudden illness, emergency at home,
problems with her kids, car trouble, etc.
- Call her the next day and see if she offers
an explanation. When you first call, act like
nothing happened and let her bring up the subject
of your dinner date first. If she offers no
explanation, then do not pursue this woman.
She may have purposely not showed up because
she has no interest in you.
- You can try another tactic that could make
her not feel so bad about not showing up. Just
tell her you're sorry you didn't show up for
your dinner date because you had a personal
issue to take care of. This may be a little
white lie, but it takes the pressure off of
her. Just reschedule another meeting.
- Whatever you do, don't call her up and start
cussing her out. This serves no purpose and
there are some single women out there that enjoy
making men upset by standing them up.
- I would suggest rescheduling another meeting
for dinner. If she doesn't want to, then just
take the hint (she's really telling you that
she's not interested in you). If she agrees
to meet you again and doesn't show up again,
then forget about her. Don't let a woman humiliate
you twice.
In closing, remember that being stood up is
part of the dating game. It happens to everybody.
Don't let it get you down. Let it be a lesson...if
a single woman stands you up on purpose, then
you don't want to be with a woman who is not
interested in you anyway.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1
Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating
tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract,
and seduce single women, please visit his website
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